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We'll be pleased to welcome you to our warm and comfortable offices. Stillinger Family Funeral Home was designed to be unlike any funeral home you've ever seen. We invite you to come in and see for yourself how we're revolutionizing the way you think about funeral service.

Stillinger Family Funeral Home, Pasco Chapel

1780 West Main Street
Greenfield, IN 46140
Telephone: (317) 462-5536

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History & Staff

Our Beginnings

Since 1912, four generations of the Pasco family have owned and operated Pasco Memorial Mortuary. Originally, the Pasco family operated the funeral home from a store-front location on West Main Street in downtown Greenfield. In the mid-twenties they relocated to a large home located at 312 E. Main Street. Historically the Pasco family business grew along with the city of Greenfield. Several generations of Pasco's have memorialized many friends and families of the James Whitcomb Riley birthplace here in central Indiana. Chancy Pasco was honored by being invited to assist with the funeral of this man who was Indiana's most published poet, a native of Greenfield and internationally famous celebrity. As the town continued to grow, so did the business outreach into Hancock county and surrounding counties. The building at 312 E. Main Street was enlarged in the 1940's with a new west chapel and in the 1980's with a north addition. With the addition of each new Pasco generation the business continually grew until Dave and Richard Pasco decided in December of 1999 to relocate the operation to a new state of the art one level facility on the near west side at 1780 W. Main St. in Greenfield.

A Home Filled with Warmth & Compassion

On September 1, 2001, Richard & David Pasco sold Pasco Memorial Mortuary to long time Hancock County resident David Stillinger. David with his extensive background in operating a family owned funeral home dedicated himself to continuing the tradition of excellence the Pasco family set forth in 1912.

Today, David and his staff strive to maintain a warm and caring, family oriented, home like atmosphere where families come together to honor the lives of those they love.

The addition of our grief therapy dogs Butler, Harper and Harley, the relaxing family gathering lounge and our many technical advancements create an environment that makes it easier to treasure the memories.

Our Commitment to You

At Stillinger Family Funeral Home, we are dedicated to carrying out your wishes by providing funeral services that fulfill your personal requests by focusing on your individual preferences. Our goal is to make sure you truly are comforted and cared for by compassionate friends during your time of need. In doing so, we not only offer a variety of service options that we hope will exceed your expectations, but we are also committed to planning a funeral service that meets your needs.

We offer a full-range of traditional, customized or special memorial and cremation services for all the families we serve. It's important for us to help you pay tribute with a more personalized approach to funeral services, which may not be limited to our equipment or chapel. We strive to stay on top of the latest technical advancements such as private and secure webcasting of funeral services for those family members and friends that cannot gather together in one location.

Are you ready to take the next steps with planning a comforting experience? Call us today!

Stillinger Family Funeral Home

David Stillinger Funeral Director & Owner
Jordan Stillinger Executive Assistant
Jeannine Gray Family Services Coordinator
Josh Silvers Funeral Director
Jim Fornoff Funeral Director
Maury Mayfield Retired Funeral Director & Family Assistant
Bernie Campbell Family Assistant
Nick Jaussaud Family Assistant
Ashley A. Lapham-Sanders Funeral Director
Anna Campbell Funeral Student
Butler Stillinger Senior Grief Therapy Dog
Harper Stillinger Grief Therapy Dog
Harley Stillinger Grief Therapy Dog

David Stillinger

Funeral Director & Owner

David has worked within the funeral environment since graduation from Lawrence Central High School in 1983. He continued to work his way through school to attain his Bachelor of Architecture and a Bachelor of Environmental Design degrees from Ball State University 1992. In 1996 David returned to college to obtain his Associate Degree from Cincinnati College of Mortuary Science.

David loves to spend time with his family including his wife April; sons, Joshua and his wife Brittney, Jordan and Gavin. David and April are anxiously awaiting the arrival of their first grandchild in December. David is an avid dog lover. Most everyone is familiar with Butler (Golden Retriever), who served a grief therapy dog for the funeral home for eleven years, Harley and Harper Labradoodles which are both up and coming grief therapy dogs and Baxter (Yorkillon). He is a Corvette and Harley Davidson enthusiast/owner and loves to remodel old homes.

David attends Park Chapel Christian Church, is a former 10 year member of Wilkinson Volunteer Fire Department where he served as EMS/Rescue Captain, a member of Hancock Lodge #101, member of the Valley of Indianapolis Scottish Rite, member of the Rotary Club of Greenfield where he currently serves on the Board of Directors and was president 2013-2014. He also is the former Chairman for Board of Directors for Meals on Wheels of Hancock County, member of the Fraternal Order of Police #140 and Greenfield Lion's Club. In October of 2008 he became certified with the State of Indiana as a Medico-legal Death Investigator. In 2017, David was elected the new Hancock County Coroner.

Jordan Stillinger

Executive Assistant

Jordan Stillinger is the son of the owner David Stillinger. Jordan graduated from Eastern Hancock High School in 2016, where he was a member of the varsity basketball team. Jordan works part-time at the funeral home during the week during school. Jordan currently attends Ivy Tech Community College in Indianapolis and plans to transfer at a later date to the Cincinnati College of Mortuary Science to obtain his degree in Mortuary Science.

Jeannine Gray

Family Services Coordinator

Jeannine was born and raised in Nebraska and relocated to Indiana in 1989, and Hancock County in 1995. Jeannine has always taken great pride in serving her community and has served on several boards and committees throughout the years including; The boys and Girls Clubs of Hancock County where she served and President, Vice President and Secretary, Hancock County Community Foundation Women's Fund Scholarship Committee, Meals on Wheels of Hancock County, Rotary Club of Greenfield currently serving as President, Kenneth Butler Memorial Soup Kitchen Board of Directors, Eastern Hancock Athletic Boosters Board and the Hancock County Plan Commission. Jeannine lives in Shirley with her family and enjoys spending time with her sons, Keaton 20 and Peyton 17.

Jeannine spends most of her spare time with her boys at athletic events and other extracurricular activities. Jeannine believes as we engage with the families we serve and provide the strength and stability they need during this most difficult time, we will in turn build relationships that last for generations.

Jeannine works to ensure that families have the resources they need in order to plan an impactful bereavement experience.

Josh Silvers

Funeral Director

Josh joined Stillinger Family Funeral Home in 2017 as a licensed Funeral Director. Josh was born and raised in New Castle and is a 1998 graduate of New Castle High School, where he was a 4-year member of the basketball team. He went to Indiana University East and played basketball. He later went on to graduate from Ivy Tech Community College with a degree in Mortuary Science in 2016. He married Charity Koger in 2011 and they have two sons, Carter and Nash. He and his family are members of Turning Point Life Center in New Castle, where the entire family is involved in the music ministry.

In his spare time Josh loves to spend time with his family, golf, play the drums, as well as, play and watch basketball. Josh is involved with the Greenfield Area Chamber of Commerce and serves as a Board Ambassador.

With his background in music, Josh wants to show his passion to each customer at the funeral home. Making sure that they have the perfect service they need in order to heal is his top priority.

Jim Fornoff

Funeral Director

Jim was born in Richmond, Indiana and moved to Greenfield in 1965 after attending Ball State University and graduating from the Indiana College of Mortuary Science.

Married to his wife of forty-four years. He is a member of the Indiana Funeral Directors Association, National Funeral Directors Association and Independent Selected Funeral Directors. Local memberships include, Greenfield Elks Lodge #1740 where he served in several positions including Chairman of The Trustees, Hancock County F.O.P. Lodge #140 and the Greenfield Lions Club.

Jim believes that funeral services are best if they are thoroughly planned with all areas covered. Make sure that you have everything you need beforehand, so you can focus on healing during!

Maury Mayfield

Retired Funeral Director & Family Assistant

Maury is originally from Tell City, Indiana and found his way to Greenfield by way of New Castle. Maury is married to his wife Jane and is the father of four children, Julie, Sherry, Lori and Tony. Maury is an active member of St. Michael's Catholic Church and is the President of the St. Michael's Parish Council. Maury was a longtime Funeral Director for the funeral home for many years. Maury enjoys spending time with his children, grandchildren and is a Department 56 enthusiast and collector.

Being a family assistant means that Maury knows how to take care of the grieving. He is able to connect you with who you need to talk to while providing comfort and support during your time of need.

Bernie Campbell

Family Assistant

Bernie and his wife, Barb Campbell have lived in Greenfield since 1998. Bernie recently worked for the Mt. Vernon Community School Corp from 1984 to 2016. Most recently he was the principal of Mt. Vernon High School from 2009 to 2016. After 32 years he retired from education in June of 2016. Bernie is a member of Park Chapel Christian Church as well as a member of the Hancock County Sheriff's Merit Board. He also is the Y-Give coordinator at the Hancock County Community Foundation. Barbara and Bernie have 4 children, ages 30; 27; 26; 25; and one grandchild age 5.

Bernie focuses on created a passionate experience for the family members present during the time of a service. He will be able to get needed resources to help make the arrangements as painless as possible.

Nick Jaussaud

Family Assistant

Nick was born in Indianapolis, Indiana and was raised in the Greenfield/New Palestine area for most of his life but moved around occasionally when he was younger while his father was in the military. Nick graduated from New Palestine High School in 2015. He currently works for Seals Ambulance Service; Buck Creek Township Fire Department; and is a Deputy Coroner with Hancock County. Nick enjoys music; video games; shooting at the gun range with his father; and spending time with his friends and family.

As a family assistant, Nick works directly with the grieving to provide support in all needed areas. From looking for comfort to planning a funeral, Nick knows how to get you want you need!

Ashley A. Lapham-Sanders

Funeral Director

Ashley grew up in Carthage, Indiana and is a 2000 graduate of Knightstown High School.  Ashley was a graduate of the first Mortuary Science class at Ivy Tech Community College in Indianapolis in 2007. Following her education, Ashley completed her internship and received her funeral director license in February 2010. She has been working in the funeral service industry since 2005. In September 2015 she was certified as a Medicolegal death investigator in Marion and Henry county and is currently serving as the death investigator in Hancock County. On February 27, 2017, she and her husband, Rick Sanders, were married in Miami, Florida. In May 2019 the couple bought an 1898 Victorian home in Middletown, IN where they reside with their fur kids! Ashley enjoys being involved in the community, decorating for all holidays, antiques, caring for her plants, and most of all spending time with her family, friends and fur kids!

Anna Campbell

Funeral Student

I am currently a student in the Ivy Tech Mortuary Science Program.  I have been married for three years and the proud mother of two boys; Austin 14 and Adam 13.  I was a florist for 21 years and worked closely with families and funeral homes.  I am honored to serve families at need and look forward to funeral directing in the future.

Butler Stillinger

Senior Grief Therapy Dog

Butler is an AKC Registered Golden Retriever that was born in September 9, 2008 in Findley. Ohio. He was adopted by the Stillinger Family just four months after his birth and relocated to Greenfield. Much of his training was completed at First Friend's K-9 Training in Fisher's and he later received private lessons by a professional trainer for Canine Companions for Independence (C.C.I.). While he is not qualified he does have the same socialization skills that C.C.I. dogs have. At four months old, Butler was slowly introduced to the families at Stillinger Family Funeral Home. Butler was named after the English family butler that worked and served the family within the home, the funeral staff rapidly learned that Butler was a natural at his job and properly named.

He is a warm, easy going and lovable extension of the funeral home staff that is gifted at disarming those that are emotionally tied down. At five months of age Butler was featured on the front page of the Daily Reporter for his unique position at the funeral home. He has visited Valle Vista Hospital with children as part of their therapy program and residents at local area extended care facilities. Butler is available to all our families during arrangement conferences, visitations and services. Many families ask for his presence at visitations and you will find him warmly welcoming guest in the foyer when asked.

Harper Stillinger

Grief Therapy Dog

More info about Harper to Come Soon!

Harley Stillinger

Grief Therapy Dog